My toddler twins turn three this month and we’re awestruck at how big and beautiful they’re becoming. When we found out a few years ago that we will have not one, but two infants to handle, my wife was thrilled and I was left in shock. Questions starting steamrolling through my mind. Could I afford to feed two mouths? Will we need to move? Can I support my growing family? After three years of hits and misses, I’ve found a few tips that have certainly helped.
Don’t Always Buy Double Everything
People ask us all the time if we buy two of everything, and you’d be surprised how often we tell people the opposite. It is true that some of their toys and clothes are the same, but quite often we’ll purposefully purchase one item to lighten the load on our wallet and to teach them an opportunity to share.
Research Those Toys Before Buying
I can’t tell you how many dollars we threw away over a toy that broke just a few days later. Our Christmas presents to them have already seen the bottom of the trash can. This gloomy end was partly my fault for not researching the toy. It’s important to check out the reviews to make sure you’re getting an item that is consumer friendly and not a consumer nightmare. Because our twins love to play, we’ve also found it helpful to visit the local thrift store to drop off our rejected toys, and buy a few more at a great price.
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