Be Human and Buy a Home

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Buy a HouseThis is an attempt to list some of the positives of owning a home. For the opposite point of view, check out the post titled Be Logical and Never Buy a Home.

Deciding to buy a home is a major decision that everyone eventually wants to make. If we consider everyone we know, it will be apparent that people who own a home are generally more comfortable. There’s a sense of family and accomplish when we live in our own home. Here’s a couple more reasons why we all want to buy a house.

30 Years and We Are Done Paying for the Majority of the Expenses
There are situations when renting makes sense, but renting also means that we will be paying rent our entire lives. Getting a 30 year loan, on the other hand, means that we will be done paying for our mortgage in 30 years as long as we don’t serially refinance. Once the 30th year hits, our expenses will go way down, which gives us more freedom to consider early retirement.

Real estate isn’t guaranteed to increase in value, but those who bought houses a decade ago still like saw increases despite a housing catastrophe since 2006. I just saw a house on sale for $1.8 million today that was purchased for $700,000 with a 5% down payment. This meant that their original $35,000 investment in 1998 turned into more than $1 million dollars in profit 14 years later. There aren’t that many investments with such a high return, and the only way this is possible with real estate is because of the degree that companies allow us to leverage.

The buyer in our example only put down $35,000 for a $700,000 house. This means that they are borrowing $20 for every dollar that they put in. In the stock market, the most we can borrow is $4 for every dollar that we own if we day trade and more likely $2 if we are holding our investments long term.

Buying a House Forces Us to Save
There is no better way to get us to save than having a mortgage payment. As we pay off our mortgage, we are also building equity over time. It’s the same theory as “pay yourself first” because bills usually take precedence over spending. It may take years or even a decade or two, but through time, those payments that we’ve been dreading becomes a ton of equity.

The Needed Pressure to Make More Money
With high bills actually comes pressure for us to work harder and make more money. It’s another psychological trick but this definitely works. If we don’t need the money, we wouldn’t really be working to earn more. I remember my former boss once told me that having expensive tastes is a good sign for a sales person since it meant that the lavish spending will drive them to work harder. Like the saying goes, “if there’s a need, we will find a way” and having a mortgage payment due every month definitely creates this “need”.

It is Not About The Money
Many people will echo this, because buying a house is not always about making money. The joy of owning a home, having a place we can call our own and giving our children a stable environment to grow up in cannot be measured in dollars. The uncertainty of renting and the need to move every few years because of unforeseen circumstances can only mean more energy wasted on something completely avoidable.

We can be logical all we want but all logical approaches assume that a good deal of our assumptions will play out. If we are human, we should make sure that we will live a happier life and just buy a home.

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  • Slackerjo says:

    I have a job I hate.
    With the job I hate, I qualify for a mortgage of $150K.
    A grand total of TWO condos are listed in my area for $149K. One has condo fees of $400+ a month, the other is in Cracktown.
    This is why I rent.

    • Roxie says:

      Amen. I would buy a small simple house if it were in a neighborhood with other frugal professionals. Unfortunately, “affordable housing” is almost a euphemism for “bad neighborhood.”

  • Marbella says:

    If you know you going to live in an area that you enjoy for a long time, 20 -30 years, it is a good investment to buy a house. You create a home that you like and everything that comes with it social, educational, sports, etc. But as short-term investment over 3 – 5 yearsI would advise against and instead rent a home.

  • FrugalRican says:

    Also, buying a home forces everyone to do one thing they might be scared to do: Look at their credit.

    It’s essential to do so. You have no idea how many people I’ve met that had no idea what their credit reports looked like, but already knew of at least 3 to 4 houses that they had in mind.

  • UH2L says:

    Buying a home is a huge liability given today’s job market. Unless you won’t leave your city or you’re sure you can rent it out if you have to move for a job, I wouldn’t buy a home. I moved for a job 4 years ago and I was lucky enough to be able to rent it out but now I don’t want to buy another house because two mortgages constitute a lot of debt. I essentially have to rent where I choose to live unless I move back to the city where my house is.

  • FionaP says:

    Buying a home is like force saving. A friend of mine sold her condo and within a few years depleted all her cash with nothing to show.

  • Jerry says:

    Sure, you have to worry about insurance and property taxes but it’s worth it, in my book. It leads to more security, in my opinion.

  • AprilC says:

    In some areas its practically impossible to buy a home due to the prices of the house and the cost of living. If instance if you live in Los Angeles county and make less than 6 figures – your most likely not going to be able to afford to buy a home. There are some low-income housing but those usually go to people via lottery and only to minorities. Non-minorities who are middle-class are pretty much being left out of the housing market.

  • joy paterson says:

    I think if you are able to own a home, do it as long as you dont over extend yourself. As a Toronto Realtor Ive seen many clients make a nice profit from buying and selling real estate – Toronto condos espeically. Real estate is like the stock market – prices go up and down but in the end its just a cycle and prices come back around eventually.

  • lost home says:

    i have to agree with alot of people . I think it all depends on your circumstances . We bought our house in97 and just spent to much . we had to buy cars and stuff. but we also lost our jobs. WE didn’t forclose but did a short sale. But on the other hand i think that owning a house is a scam because no matter what loss of job divorce etc you never really own a home unless you do pay it off. It was not totally our fault. You never own your house unless you pay it off. And with this economy the way it is , I will never trust anything our gov’t or business tells me anymore in America. This country is nothing more than a scam. I am not going to kill myself working just to pay off a house, I don’t have kids and I didn’t have my parents help me buy one either, So when I am dead and gone I am not leaving anybody anything.

  • Elwin says:

    The whole housing thing is one huge racket. It’s ridiculous how expensive housing is. Everybody these days thinks they have to live in a “mini-mansion”, and an ongoing rent expense is a total waste of money. The only way to really take advantage of “owing” a home is to actually own it, not “share” it with a lending institution.

    My parents didn’t have a mortgage. Not having a mortgage can effectively almost double one’s income, tax free. Granted, their circumstances were unusual. We lived in rural Alaska on 5 acres of land leased from the state for $250 a year. We had a 2000+ square foot house, but it was paid for a bit at a time, because it was built just a bit at a time. Yes, it was an unusual house, not one of these overpriced things you see in “Home” magazine, but it did the job of keeping us warm and dry, which is really all the primary function of a house is. It wasn’t built “to code”, it wasn’t designed by some “expert”, but it housed our family for a good 20 years, and went on to house at least two other families for another 10-15 years. Eventually, it burned down, probably because of lack of maintenance.

    If some of the more “unconventional” housing methods, such as straw bale, rammed earth, papercrete, etc. were to become more widely accepted; if, instead of buying some overpriced, stick built, sheetrock festooned monstrosity, people were allowed to build their own houses (rather than having to pay for some so-called “expert” to build it for them), we’d all have more affordable, and individual, living spaces, instead of vast tracts of housing that are “all made out of ticky tacky and all look just the same.” How people can stand to live in such housing developments is beyond me.

  • Toronto homes says:

    I agree with the real estate agent, I am sure that luxurious condos or downtown Toronto lofts are always a savvy investment and a great way to go enjoy urban living.

  • lena the thinker says:

    I think having your own home is a good idea and good for you too. At least you know that you will never be somewhere when you get old.

  • Toronto real estate agent says:

    As I`m a realtor somebody would expect me to agree with the opinion that owning a house is the best thing in your life, however time has changed and they are more and more alternative options of living which also can be favourable. I think that it`s better to rent a house than taking huge mortgage, after failing to pay it back it leads to foreclosure. The Toronto condos for example are the most tempting living options for so many couples buying their first home. I think that we should always consider our present situation and take steps forward according to this.

  • Joe @ says:

    Great post David.

    I couldn’t agree more.

    I think a lot of people who advocate renting over buying are either looking at owning a home as a short term investment only, or aren’t at a point in their life where owning a house would make sense anyway.

  • AJC @ 7million7years says:

    Purely financially speaking NOBODY should own a home (they should instead invest exactly the same amount externally & reap the benefits).

    However, practically speaking EVERYBODY should own a home (because they probably WON’T otherwise invest all the money that they would ‘save’ by renting).

    For most people (90%+0 OWNING their own home (as long as they don’t break the 20% Rule) is the ONLY way that they will ever becoe financially free.

    Thanks for the post/s.

  • Carrie says:

    I am so glad you are pointing out both sides… not everyone should own a home. If people paid more attention to their real needs, fewer people would be in foreclosure today.

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