Many of us want to start with the plan or the budget when it’s time to get serious about our finances and put together a goal of reaching financial freedom. We begin figuring out income, expenses, and creating a strategy for paying down debt. We will also be figuring out how much needs to be invested in order to reach retirement goals.

These are important aspects of financial planning and getting on top of your money situation. The reality, though, is that putting together a plan isn’t your first step. Your first step should be figuring out what matters to you.

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Do you waste money just because you are using your funds to deal with crisis after crisis?

I got a laptop last year because we visit our family overseas every year for an extended period of time and a laptop would allow me to work away from home. The decision proved extra prudent when I was in Hong Kong this year since I had to quarantine for 14 days in a hotel room and I don’t know how I would’ve passed the time if I didn’t have my laptop with me.

But remember how I play video games? Well, the laptop I got is smaller and the unit gets very hot at times, making games run a bit slow when the chips overheat. My friend suggested that I buy a desktop since there are deals to be had right now. Sure, I could do that. But wouldn’t the laptop purchase become a waste of money? I could sell it, but then I wouldn’t have a laptop when I travel again to visit my family next time. I could buy a laptop again when we go next time, but doing so and repeating the cycle over and over is obviously ridiculous.

Buying, selling, and re-buying the machine while losing money every time does sound ridiculous right? I know just about everybody agrees, but why do so many do this with other areas of their lives?

Instead of buying their cars outright or at least financing their cars at low rates, they choose to lease, re-lease and lease vehicles over and over. Instead of buying food in larger quantities and just separating them into each individual packages themselves, they buy small quantities at inflated prices over and over. Instead of buying a few quality pieces of clothing that look nice and last forever, they buy low-quality items that get ruin after a few wash cycles, so they have to buy more clothes over, and over, and over again.

The list goes on…
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what to pay teenagers

I know some people don’t give their kids allowances and others are on the fence about starting the routine. Two of our writers recently shared their experience with giving their kids a monthly stipend. Here are eight reasons why they think it’s working well for their children. Perhaps you should consider offering some money to your kids regularly too!

Vered’s Kids Are So Responsible!

My husband and I started giving our children, ages 8 and 10, a monthly allowance a couple of years ago. Now that I see how valuable having their own money is, how helpful it is in teaching them important lessons and concepts in personal finance, I regret not starting sooner!

Here are my top reasons for giving my children a monthly allowance.
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Relocating for a job can be expensive. This is a concept all too familiar to me at the moment, but through my recent experiences I have learned a lot about frugality, determining what’s most important, and making wise financial decisions in spite of emotional attachments to my possessions.

I changed jobs recently and had to make a cross-country road trip to get to the new location. I’ve also learned a little bit about saving money while on a cross-country road trip. Whether you are driving across the country for work or your family is simply on a road trip vacation, here are three tips from my 5-day journey from Michigan to Washington state for you.
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Here’s a life-saving tip for you – if you don’t want to die, don’t let your eyeglasses snap in half while you drive.

And yes, this happened to me the other day. I drove my kids to school and my glasses just fell apart while I was still behind the wheel. The good news is that there were no damages and I still managed to hold my glasses up enough for me to see clearly and drive home safely. The bad news is that I now need a new pair of glasses.

I joked to my wife that I could theoretically just tape the lenses to my face and still manage, but perhaps my wife didn’t think it was a joke at all. After all, she thinks I go pretty far in order to save money. I haven’t really done that in a long time, especially with COVID and all, but I used to walk to the grocery store, then to the pharmacy, and then back to see which place sold ibuprofen at a cheaper price. Oh man, it must have been ten years ago, but I still remember those trips! It wasn’t super far, maybe a 5 minute walk each way, but spending that extra 10 to 15 minutes to possibly save a dollar just isn’t something people in the United States do.

As I write this, I’m also wearing a pretty heavy jacket because it’s pretty cold in my room. I could turn on the heater, sure, but I’m home alone and well, gas bills…

One of our friends always comments on how frugal we are compared to those around us. She just can’t seem to understand why we spend so little compared to how much she thinks we can afford. Many people would feel the need to defend themselves, but I’m totally comfortable with being frugal. That’s because being willing to live on less is one of the primary reasons we could live a comfortable life now.
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I see this possibly becoming a little bit of a tradition here at MoneyNing.com. This isn’t the first year I wrote this piece, but many of us sure need some good news this year so we are re-running the giveaway. What are you thankful for?

Dear readers,

I don’t like to stick my nose in other people’s business, so I’ve gone back and forth on whether I should even write this to you. But I know I’ll regret it if I don’t say anything — so here goes.

In the next 30 days or so, you’ll be bombarded with many seemingly wonderful ideas on how best to part ways with your hard-earned cash. A new TV, perhaps, a gorgeous handbag, or your dream pair of shoes — sold at a deep discount, no doubt.

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