Judging People by Appearance

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This story was brought to my attention again recently and I thought we can all benefit from reading this.

A lady in a faded gingham dress and her husband, dressed in a homespun threadbare suit, stepped off the train in

Boston, and walked timidly without an appointment into the Harvard University President’s outer office.The secretary could tell in a moment that such backwoods, country hicks had no business at Harvard and probably didn’t even deserve to be in

Cambridge.”We’d like to see the president,” the man said softly. “He’ll be busy all day,” the secretary snapped.
“We’ll wait,” the lady replied.For hours the secretary ignored them, hoping that the couple would finally become discouraged and go away. They didn’t, and the secretary grew frustrated and finally decided to disturb the president, even though it was a chore she always regretted.  “Maybe if you see them for a few minutes, they’ll leave,” she said to him! He sighed in exasperation and nodded. Someone of his importance obviously didn’t have the time to spend with them, and he detested gingham dresses and homespun suits cluttering up his outer office.The president, stern faced and with dignity, strutted toward the couple. The lady told him, “We had a son who attended Harvard for one year. He loved Harvard. He was happy here. But about a year ago, he was accidentally killed. My husband and I would like to erect a memorial to him, somewhere on campus.”The president wasn’t touched. He was shocked. “Madam,” he said, gruffly, “we can’t put up a statue for every person who attended Harvard and died. If we did, this place would look like a cemetery.”
“Oh, no,” the lady explained quickly. “We don’t want to erect a statue. We thought we would like to give a building to Harvard. “The president rolled his eyes. He glanced at the gingham dress and homespun suit, and then exclaimed, “A building! Do you have any earthly idea how much a building costs? We have over seven and a half million dollars in the physical buildings here at Harvard.”For a moment the lady was silent. The president was pleased. Maybe he could get rid of them now.The lady turned to her husband and said quietly, “Is that all it costs to start a university? Why don’t we just start our own?” Her husband nodded.The president’s face wilted in confusion and bewilderment. Mr. and Mrs. Leland Stanford got up and walked away, traveling to Palo Alto, California where they established the university that bears their name, Stanford University, a memorial to a son that Harvard no longer cared about. You can easily judge the character of others by how they treat those who they think can do nothing for them.

A TRUE STORY by Malcolm Forbes

This is an interesting article for us because many of us are money savers. This meant we deprive ourselves of having luxury items at times. For some of us, it gets so extreme that we feel like bursting out at times because we see our friends driving the nice cars, wearing the expensive clothes while we eat home, try to save with a feeling that we have nothing to show for it other than a big number in an account statement. You might not be able to amass as much money as the Mr and Mrs Stanford to start a university by saving, but can you imagine that being able to one day do something that can affect others in a good way as what Stanford has done for countless others? Can you imagine how much that can affect people? For those that are being doubtful because they do not see the connection of themselves being able to help much just by saving. Let’s say you can save $200 per month, it will grow to $1 million after 45 years with an 8% annualized return (see calculation here). Wouldn’t you say that you can donate a portion of that to charity, which will be great for others around you? Never lose faith on how much good you can do in this world no matter how little you feel you are.

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Brent June 1, 2007 at 11:17 am

Just FYI:
http://www.snopes.com/glurge/stanford.asp

Of course the point of the story is still important and your comments are quite on point.

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