I read an article from MSNBC that said stay-at-home mothers in the states would be paid $138,095 on average for her work as a housekeeper, cook and psychologist.
This means that my soon-to-be wife will also be worth $138,095. The first thing I thought to myself is ?? better hide this article from her!!??br />
The article says that the typical mother puts in a 92-hour work week (really??), so 40 hours were calculated using base pay and 52 hours were calculated with overtime. It also says that if the person has a full time job (meaning all 92 hours are overtime), add $85,939 to the number.
Over $200,000! Wow!
Let?? just become house husbands and wives!
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I’ve heard these ideas before, and all it does is try to make people feel better for being stay at home moms.
When are people going to realize that raising children is not a job. It is a huge responsibility, but it’s not a job, occupation, career or anything like it.
You also can’t say what someone “would be” paid. People are only paid as much as someone else is willing to pay them, and no one is going to pay you $138K to raise your own kids.
You also can’t forget that the working parent (in this case the father) also helps out with the kids once he gets home from work (or at least he should). If someone’s going to purport that they should be paid such an exorbitant amount for raising kids, the father shouldn’t then be expected to ever change a diaper or anything.
It should be a team effort and both help out and do what they can. You shouldn’t be comparing and worrying about who does more or less.
-limeade
Wow! That’s a lot of money, but like you said, people are only worth what others are willing to pay.
Obviously people will have a hard time finding a way to get paid $138,095 for being a house mom. However, my mom had been a house mom ever since I was born and I wouldn’t trade $138,095 a year for anything other than her being my full time mom.
This is such bull. A few points:
(1) Many of these tasks are done by those of us like me who are childfree (and many of us live alone). I do my own cooking, cleaning, chauffering, and shopping. I handle my own finances and maintain my PC. I don’t see anyone writing an article about what my “salary” should be.
(2) Many of these tasks, if done by a professional, require college degrees and/or licensing. Being able to balance one’s checkbook or do one’s own taxes does not translate into the salary of an accountant. Driving one’s kids to soccer practice or dance class does not trnaslate into the salary of a taxi driver. Talking to your kids does not translate into the salary of a psychologist. Helping your kids with their homework does not translate into the salary of a teacher or private tutor. Putting a band-aid on your kid’s skinned knee does not translate into the salary of a nurse. [Also, having sex with your spouse does not translate into the salary of a prostitute.]
(3) The SAHM receives free housing, food, car, and clothing (to name a few) for her “services”. That should be deducted from any so-called “salary” she may be entitled to.
(4) And the SAHM has volunteered for this “work” - she and her spouse decided to have kids. She isn’t entitled to any special pay for volunter work any more than I am entitled to getting paid for the volunteer work I do with kids.
deegee has sure hit the nail on the head. This stuff just makes the mommies feel better about themselves. Funny how they think they’re worth so much money, yet they scream at the money a daycare costs or what babysitters charge (the latter is the reason parents take their kids places with them that they shouldn’t).
Wow!! Such ugly comments about stay at home moms. I didn’t know that I needed to feel better about myself!! FYI there is no such thing as free room and board. Believe me, I earn my share in this household and I am proud of what I do. Contrary to popular belief, most mothers do not sit around on the couch and watch tv all day. Probably no more than all single or childless woman do nothing but work and have sex with men they don’t know. The point of the article is that if you attempted to hire someone to do each individual job that is what you would have to pay. I Love My Husband and 5 Children!! Jealous??
“I Love My Husband and 5 Children!! Jealous??”
Seriously? FIVE children?! What’s there to be jealous of? If I were in your situation, I’d kill myself. And probably my kids, too.
After you shat out 5 kids, I’d bet you good money that hubby is boinking some fine young tart on the side. Goodness knows he’s not getting any from you… Not that he would be interested in you that way. He could probably drive a Volvo into your Vulva.
I’ll just continue to enjoy my unencumbered relationship with my fiance while you do “the most important job in the world”.
As for the topic of the OP, so much for motherhood “being it’s own reward”.
This is so ridiculous. Why should these women be paid for a lifestyle that they themselves chose. Everyone has to clean their house, cook meals, shop for food, etc. These SAHM’s are “worth” no more than anyone else. They just think they are, and want special treatment/consideration. They’re the ones who chose to have kids, not us. So I guess all of us should be paid a salary for living life.
“I didn’t know that I needed to feel better about myself!! FYI there is no such thing as free room and board. Believe me, I earn my share in this household and I am proud of what I do.”
You moms (and the media), NOT the rest of us, are the ones trying to make yourselves feel better with these ridiculous claims of deserving astronomical “salaries” for taking care of your OWN children that they CHOSE to have! And yes, you do earn your share in your household. That is the point! You don’t work, but your husband supports you, so in essence he is “paying” you.
As someone said earlier, the rest of us don’t try to claim we should be paid for doing the things EVERYONE has to do, so why do so many moms think they’re any different?
And, why do we never hear “Dads should earn $$$$ for what they do” around Father’s Day?
SAHMOF5, do you write a check for your rent or mortgage every month using money you have earned and are contributing to your household? If not, then your room and board are FREE. If you were living the way unrelated (usually) roommates live, then each roommate pays his or her share towards the household’s living expenses. You do not, so your room and board are free. This cost should be deducted from any “salary” you claim to earn by being a SAHM. And that $138k salary is vastly inflated for reasons I mentioned above.
BTW, SAHMOF5, I am 46, male, and retired as of last November. I was able to get out of the rat race called work by not having any kids. Unlike you, I do not depend on others (i.e. spouse) to pay for my living expenses. And, with some of my added time, I can do more of my volunteer work with several area schools [so you can't call me some evil "child-hater" or any of those other stereotypes you SAHMs have about us CF (childfree) folks]. I enjoy a quiet, peaceful life without children. YOU should be jealous of ME!
Funny how the mommies claim to do so much “work” yet it’s the same work everybody else does AFTER working an 8 (or more) hour day. Laundry, clean up, dishes, errands, grocery shopping, food preparation, day-to-day household stuff, pet care, etc. We ALL do it, only I don’t complain about it being my “job” even after working an 8 hour day. Jealous? LOL Hardly. I get to enjoy constant peace and quiet, having hubby all to myself, financial freedom, time for travel, hobbies, etc., and the numerous other perks of being CF.