Comments on: Avoiding Confrontations Will Cost You http://moneyning.com/better-yourself/avoiding-confrontations-will-cost-you/ A personal finance blog where we share insights on carefully saving money, investing, frugal living, coupons, promo codes because the little things matter in achieving financial freedom! Sat, 11 Feb 2012 19:58:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Play Games Win Prizes http://moneyning.com/better-yourself/avoiding-confrontations-will-cost-you/comment-page-1/#comment-15087 Play Games Win Prizes Wed, 08 Apr 2009 02:58:09 +0000 http://moneyning.com/?p=2608#comment-15087 The thing is when you avoid confrontation once like this, you are MORE than likely going to avoid it again. It is mainly due to fear and that is what my wife tells me too :( -Mike The thing is when you avoid confrontation once like this, you are MORE than likely going to avoid it again. It is mainly due to fear and that is what my wife tells me too :(

-Mike

]]> By: Herbert http://moneyning.com/better-yourself/avoiding-confrontations-will-cost-you/comment-page-1/#comment-14959 Herbert Thu, 02 Apr 2009 23:38:00 +0000 http://moneyning.com/?p=2608#comment-14959 It's interesting how the Chinese culture was mentioned. I'm of Chinese descent myself, but I like to think that I can be quite confrontational most of the time. It's a matter of foresight, for me -- I know that I'll end up regretting not saying something, so I might as well say it. ...of course, that kind of philosophy has gotten into much trouble too, haha. It’s interesting how the Chinese culture was mentioned. I’m of Chinese descent myself, but I like to think that I can be quite confrontational most of the time. It’s a matter of foresight, for me — I know that I’ll end up regretting not saying something, so I might as well say it.

…of course, that kind of philosophy has gotten into much trouble too, haha.

]]> By: Kai Lo http://moneyning.com/better-yourself/avoiding-confrontations-will-cost-you/comment-page-1/#comment-14932 Kai Lo Wed, 01 Apr 2009 22:22:25 +0000 http://moneyning.com/?p=2608#comment-14932 Damn, hope you learned you lesson. The only thing I can't do about car damage is a hit-and-run on my car while I'm no where near my car. The family was being very irresponsible about your damage. Damn, hope you learned you lesson. The only thing I can’t do about car damage is a hit-and-run on my car while I’m no where near my car. The family was being very irresponsible about your damage.

]]> By: Steve |MyWifeQuitHerJob.com http://moneyning.com/better-yourself/avoiding-confrontations-will-cost-you/comment-page-1/#comment-14931 Steve |MyWifeQuitHerJob.com Wed, 01 Apr 2009 22:15:57 +0000 http://moneyning.com/?p=2608#comment-14931 Hey David, I hear you. It took me a long time to get over being non-confrontational because that was the way I was brought up. As I've found out over the years being confrontational is sometimes required to get ahead. Hey David,

I hear you. It took me a long time to get over being non-confrontational because that was the way I was brought up. As I’ve found out over the years being confrontational is sometimes required to get ahead.

]]> By: tom http://moneyning.com/better-yourself/avoiding-confrontations-will-cost-you/comment-page-1/#comment-14924 tom Wed, 01 Apr 2009 16:00:44 +0000 http://moneyning.com/?p=2608#comment-14924 Well i think a lot of us are like that, we like to stay comfortable and not do the thing that is uncomfortable, out of our comfort zone. Well i think a lot of us are like that, we like to stay comfortable and not do the thing that is uncomfortable, out of our comfort zone.

]]> By: Rick Vaughn http://moneyning.com/better-yourself/avoiding-confrontations-will-cost-you/comment-page-1/#comment-14923 Rick Vaughn Wed, 01 Apr 2009 15:42:58 +0000 http://moneyning.com/?p=2608#comment-14923 Ning, It goes to the age old phrase of "nice guys finish last". So many kids have their heads in the clouds obviously their parents aren't making them aware of mistakes. The only way you can grow as a person is to have some uncomfortable conversations. However, make sure you think through before you speak. Especially, with the boss. Ning,

It goes to the age old phrase of “nice guys finish last”. So many kids have their heads in the clouds obviously their parents aren’t making them aware of mistakes.

The only way you can grow as a person is to have some uncomfortable conversations. However, make sure you think through before you speak. Especially, with the boss.

]]> By: Neal Frankle http://moneyning.com/better-yourself/avoiding-confrontations-will-cost-you/comment-page-1/#comment-14920 Neal Frankle Wed, 01 Apr 2009 14:05:58 +0000 http://moneyning.com/?p=2608#comment-14920 Solid reminder. I also shy away from confrontation and I don't know why. I do know that when I "go against myself" and set boundaries, it works out well. Solid reminder. I also shy away from confrontation and I don’t know why.

I do know that when I “go against myself” and set boundaries, it works out well.

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